A Complete Guide on Fellatio 2021

 After a tiring day at work, your man deserves a pleasurable night. That’s what attracted him to come to you at the end of his hectic shift.

After feeding him his favourite meal, before he drifts off into sleep, why not give him the best dream he could have? Well, that dream starts with your mouth on his penis!

It is time for the much-awaited fellatio treatment, which will surely drive him crazy if the best techniques are followed.

Now, for the noobs out there, the primary question is what the heck is fellatio? Do you have this same question in mind? Well, not to worry as you are not the only one.

In layman’s term, fellatio is the term for oral sex that is performed on a male. This word was derived from “Fellatus,” a Latin word, which translates to “to suck.”

So, if anyone is asking for fellatio, he is asking you for a blow job. If you are down for it, why not give it a try?

Practiced for Thousands of Years

Fellatio is not something new; it has been depicted as a sexual act in ancient times at many places all over the world for thousands of years.

Here, the man’s partner, previously only women but now any gender, uses the mouth for stimulating his penis. That helps in bringing the ultimate pleasure, which can even lead to orgasm. Some people practise blowjobs as foreplay, and some as a replacement of intercourse, to avoid pregnancy.

Then again you have other women looking for this oral sex in case  she wants to protect her virginity or perhaps, maybe during that menstruation time. If the woman is in her last few weeks of pregnancy and wants to give her man the ultimate pleasure, she is more than welcome to give him fellatio.

Also, what if the man cannot penetrate his dick into her vagina? That won’t stop him from enjoying orgasmic pleasure, thanks to a blowjob of course!

But, while we   are on this subject, let’s delve a bit deeper into it, shall we? Even though the blow job seems quite sexually stimulating, it is not always the first thing for everyone to perform, especially if that person has a significant gag reflex. But that won’t stop her from being a pro in fellatio, for sure.

This gag reflex will take a back seat shortly with practice. But, for that, the man’s genital hygiene is a significant point to consider.

If it is in poor condition, without proper shaving of genital hair and smelly penis tip, that will contribute to a lack of interest or discomfort among women to perform blowjob or oral sex on her partner. So, for some pleasure, a man needs to work hard as well.

Nothing works better than a perfectly clean shaven erect dick to attract your partner for that stimulating fellatio!

Getting into some advanced techniques now!

If you have been giving blowjobs for a long time, then you are aware of the basics you need for performing this task. But, trying out some new ideas once in a while can serve you better. If you want to master the art of fellatio, then you have to expand your knowledge.

Sticking to just one technique won’t do you any good. The secret of a great Fellatio  lies within the spirit of desire and adventure, and even your ability to just listen to what your partner is telling you to do, non-verbally or even verbally.

The Ultimate Blowjob Part 01

Perfect Eye Contact is Mandatory

Defined as one of the significant techniques for you to follow, maintaining a sexual connection with your partner during a blow job can always help in turning the heat on.

• Well, the connection does not always mean staring at your partner. In its place, this might be the perfect time to make eye contact.
• Use it as one technique to let your partner show you how much he likes your tongue on his penis. Your expressive eyes will tell him a lot during that moment, which will further spice things up a bit.
• The desire on your face is pretty obvious. So, if you are not enjoying what you are doing to your partner, there’s a great chance, he’ll know about that.

Your Tongue’s Shape Matters a Lot

When you were a kid, your tongue used to fascinate you a lot due to the various shapes that you could make with it. But, when you pass that phase of your life and enter adulthood, it becomes easier for you to forget the multiple ways your tongue might feel depending on your made-up shapes.

• A wide and a flat tongue will feel quite different from the curled up one or the one, which you can easily roll into one tube.
• Even the side portion of the edge of your tongue will feel a lot different than the tip, which might feel very different from the flat part right in the middle of the tongue.
• It is always the guys who will notice this difference the most if you are planning to use the tongue on scrotum or frenulum. But then you have some guys with spots on the shaft of their penis, which are pretty sensitive at the same time.

That Perfect Blow in Your Much-Awaited Blowjob

Even though your attention remains on your man’s penis, you should never ignore his balls or scrotum. They are pretty sensitive to even some of your softest touches as well.

• Moreover, they are likely to be your source of that tremendous psychological power to the guy. Being nice to them can be thrilling, but being a bit naughty will sensually pleasure him the most.
• Now, you must be wondering what to do? Try tapping his scrotum with the finger’s pads and never go with the fingernails completely, unless you know that he is rightfully into it. Not everyone loves fingernails, you know.
• Why not try out circling the balls with your forefinger and thumb and grab scrotum at that point where it meets the penis. Then just gently pull it down  away from his body.
• If you want, you can further use your fingers just to massage the scrotum and gently play with his balls. It will provide him with a sensual feel which he hasn’t felt before.

Time for the Suction Power

Sucking your partner’s penis tends to draw more blood into his penile shaft causing it to become more erect.. That helps in creating one voluptuous feeling which he surely will enjoy. Many guys find this pressurized feel to be amazing, more like a BP cuff, but better.

There’s no need for you to maintain that steady suction until he reaches his orgasmic pleasure. In its place, you can vary the pressure while sucking. Experiment with various suctions but cover the head of the penis. 

That will make sure that you do not cause any permanent damage to the Glans of the penis. Sometimes, it can lead to some painful results a few days later, so always be sure to vary the pressure and then check with your partner from time to time if it feels rough or not.

Practising Deep Throat for Ultimate Pleasure

This practice of taking the entire penis  into your mouth is discussed a lot these days. A lot of men like this feeling, though it is not entirely clear that they are aroused by the idea only or enjoy the physical stimulation of it.

• Even fellatio practitioners like to perform this task on their men.
• Most of the techniques revolving around deep throat mainly emphasize on the importance of the giver always being in full control and learning ways to keep their gag reflex under check.
• There are multiple websites and oral sex books available, offering detailed and step by step instructions on the same.

The Ultimate Blowjob Part 02

Just a tiny little finger will do the trick!

Well, the anus is always the site of fantastic pleasure filled with nerve endings and is quite sensitive to touch and pressure.

But, unfortunate enough, a lot of straight guys are not quite into anything near their rear region. So, it is always stated that if you want the boys to learn the beauty and pleasure quotient of anal love, fellatio is the starting point for the same.

• In no time, not only will he get turned on but will also feel the ultimate pleasure. He will keep coming back for more.
• Once you know more about anal safety and approach this section with caution, you can use the finger to massage or gently stroke the outside of the anus. That helps in adding a lot of pleasurable moments to a blowjob.
• Even if you haven’t ventured out further, this external stimulation is more than enough to be mind-boggling for the guys who are trying this out for the first time.

Try Humming a Tune

Hummer is an amazing trick and proves to be quite versatile. If you are trying to make some sensuous noises while trying to perform fellatio, it can prove to be a turn on, in preferably two manners.

• At first, it will let your man know that you are enjoying his penis in your mouth and that understanding will help him to be more relaxed. They will understand you aren’t doing anything out of obligation.
• Physically, humming helps in creating a powerful vibration within your mouth, and that helps you to create multiple sensations, depending on the various speeds and pitches.

Working Your Way Out Perineum Massage

The perineum is the area between anus and scrotum. Many men would love a sexual massage at that spot during a blow job.

Based on the level of comfort, you have to start with running your fingers up and right at that area and applying a  bit of pressure. If you begin to press deep right in the middle of that portion, you are stimulating his prostate gland externally, which some men find out to be quite pleasurable.

Fabulous Fellatio #5: The Perenium

Planning to Get a Bit Rough

If you think that your man likes it rough and you are giving that to him, there are safe ways to do so while running down to his soft and sensitive private parts. For those with long fingernails, you can try experimenting with it just to see if he digs it or not.

• Similarly, you can use a few of your lower teeth, to stimulate the lower region of the penis’ glans and see how he responds to it.
• The penis’ shaft, after it has been properly lubricated, can always take a fair amount of friction and squeezing. The same goes for the tip of the penis, but you need to be extra careful on the tip though.
• When the matters revolve around the scrotum, you should not try to squeeze the testicles directly. On the other hand, with good handling power, you will be surprised to see how a bit of pulling can be executed safely and satisfyingly.

Working Your Way Out Advanced Fellatio Choreography

Well, this is not the dance choreography that we’re talking about here. Rather, it is a way to coordinate a minimum of two different forms of stimulations together and then ramping their intensity up or just bringing them down at a simultaneous rate.

• It means stimulating two significant erogenous zones at the same time.
• This move of taking your man’s penis into your mouth, for example, is one way to create suspense and anticipation.
• Trying to time this action before starting the next move can always create a nice effect. So, orgasms will come out more powerfully, making him happy and content from the start till finish.

The Ultimate Power Revolving around Sex Toys

Even though fellatio is enough to win over your man, it can further prove to be a great time if you plan on to introduce some anal action  to turn your man on in no time.

Every time, you can  spice things up by introducing a novel element into the act, and now you can do it easily, thanks to sex toys for that.

• You can always try to take the help of a small vibrator for that external stimulation mainly around perineum regions while you are busy with your mouth.
• Then you have some anal vibrators as well, which you can always introduce during oral sex. If you have a comfortable partner to use an anal sex toy, then inserting that anal toy when your man has an orgasmic feel, will double down the enjoyment in just one go.
• You can try using the vibrating penis ring or that vibrator, which will get right on your tongue. Your man might not be able to notice it initially, but, when you start giving him fellatio, the result will be just outstanding.

Time to Embrace Your Power

Inheriting fellatio tricks and tips will help you get into the right power. On the one hand, your man is being attended through oral sex, focused on and even showered with love.

Then, on the other side of the story, they are exposing themselves and making themselves vulnerable to their partners’ touches.

If you are genuinely into the mood to explore the dynamism of sex through fantasy role play, oral sex can always be an experiment for you to try.

This kind of experiment will include dirty talk and some specific types of touches. Some of those examples are slapping, grabbing and even spanking.

Or, it might give rise to something new for you to look up to and to help your mind to wander into the world of fantasy.

Some Tips to Kick Start Your Fellatio Session

So, you have gone through some techniques and want to try it on your man.

You always wanted him to feel special, and nothing can work better than fellatio at its best. But first, before you get into this section, you might want to learn more about the steps involved in it. For that, checking out the points mentioned below can serve the purpose all too well.